11 KiB
Wellness Action Plan
Week 1: Building the Foundation Together
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Shared Morning Routine
- 15-min morning walk together for light exposure
- Take turns leading the 10-min HIIT workout (7-Minute Workout, repeat once)
- Prepare and enjoy a balanced breakfast together
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Couple's Evening Routine
- Agree on a shared sleep schedule: e.g., 10:30 PM - 6:30 AM
- 10-min partner stretching or reading aloud to each other before bed
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Daily Connection Habits
- Practice 4-7-8 breathing technique together before stressful events
- Share one thing you're grateful for about your partner each day
- Use a couples app like Lasting or Love Nudge to track relationship health
Week 2: Nourishing Bodies and Relationships
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Nutrition Challenge
- Plan and prepare omega-3 rich meals together 3x/week
- Create a weekly meal plan, alternating who chooses meals
- Have a "new recipe night" once a week
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Social Connection Boost
- Schedule a double date (in-person or virtual) with another couple
- Plan a weekend activity that's new to both of you (e.g., hiking, dance class)
Week 3: Managing Stress and Creating Space
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Mindfulness Practice
- Start with 5-min guided couple's meditation, gradually increase to 10 min
- Teach each other a new stress-relief technique (e.g., progressive muscle relaxation)
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Create Couple's Sanctuary
- Design and set up a "couple's nook" in your home together
- Declutter a shared space together, deciding what to keep, donate, or discard
Week 4: Fine-tuning and Growing Together
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Fitness Fun
- Increase 7-Minute Workout to 2-3 circuits, alternating who leads each round
- Choose a 60-90 min physical activity to do together on weekends (e.g., bike riding, rock climbing)
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Wellness Support
- Research and discuss supplement options together, consult a doctor if needed
- Create a "Wellness Wins" board to celebrate each other's health achievements
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Review & Plan
- Have a "State of Our Wellness" discussion:
- Share what's working well and what needs adjustment
- Set couple and individual wellness goals for the next month
- Plan a reward activity together for completing the 4-week program
- Have a "State of Our Wellness" discussion:
Ongoing Couple's Wellness Boosters
- Weekly Wellness Check-in: Discuss progress, challenges, and support needs
- Monthly Wellness Date: Alternately plan surprise wellness-focused dates (e.g., couples massage, healthy cooking class)
- Quarterly Adventure: Plan a wellness-themed day trip or weekend getaway
- Yearly Reflection: Review your wellness journey and set goals for the year ahead
Remember: This journey is about supporting each other and growing together. Celebrate small victories, be patient with setbacks, and keep communication open. Adjust the plan to fit your unique relationship dynamics and individual needs.
Serotonin Management Guide
Understanding Serotonin
Serotonin is often called the "happy molecule" because of its role in regulating mood, anxiety, and happiness. It's not just about feeling good—serotonin also influences sleep, appetite, and even bone health. By focusing on lifestyle choices that support healthy serotonin levels, we're aiming for overall well-being, not just a temporary mood boost.
1. Nutrition: Feeding Your Happiness
Morning Kick-starter:
- Whole grain toast with turkey and cheese
- Why: Tryptophan in turkey + carbs help tryptophan reach your brain
- Pro tip: Add a slice of avocado for healthy fats and extra satisfaction
Midday Mood Booster:
- Salmon or tuna salad on whole grain bread
- Omega-3s in fish support brain health and may enhance serotonin's effects
- Add spinach for a folate boost, which helps in serotonin production
Evening Relaxation Meal:
- Lean protein (rotate between chicken, fish, lentils) with quinoa
- Quinoa is a complete protein, providing all essential amino acids
- Pair with steamed broccoli (rich in vitamin B6, a cofactor in serotonin synthesis)
Strategic Snacking:
- Greek yogurt with berries
- Probiotics in yogurt support gut health, where much of your serotonin is produced
- Berries provide antioxidants, protecting your brain cells
Supplement Smartly (consult your doctor):
- Vitamin D3: 1000-2000 IU daily (especially important if you have limited sun exposure)
- Omega-3: 1000mg daily (look for high-quality, molecularly distilled fish oil)
- Magnesium: 200-400mg before bed (may also improve sleep quality)
2. Move for Your Mood
Weekday Energy Boosters:
- Morning: 10-minute HIIT
- Jumpstarts metabolism and provides a quick mood lift
- Try the "Scientific 7-Minute Workout" app for guided sessions
Weekend Serotonin Surge:
- 60-90 minute enjoyable activities
- Choose activities you genuinely enjoy—the mood boost comes from both exercise and pleasure
- Try new routes or locations to keep it exciting
3. Sleep: Your Serotonin Recharge
- Consistent sleep schedule: 10:30 PM to 6:30 AM
- Your body loves routine—stick to this even on weekends if possible
- Create a wind-down ritual:
- 9:30 PM: Dim lights, switch devices to night mode
- 10:00 PM: Light stretching or reading (physical book, not e-reader)
- 10:25 PM: 5-minute meditation or deep breathing
4. Stress Management: Your Serotonin Shield
Daily Calm Cultivators:
- Morning meditation: 10 minutes upon waking
- Use an app like Calm or Headspace, or simply focus on your breath
- 4-7-8 breathing technique:
- Inhale for 4 counts, hold for 7, exhale for 8
- Do this before potentially stressful events (like important meetings)
Weekly Recharge:
- Yoga or stretching: 45 minutes
- Focus on restorative poses like Child's Pose and Legs Up the Wall
5. Light: Serotonin's Natural Trigger
- Morning light exposure: 10-15 minutes
- Combine with exercise for a double benefit—morning jog or yoga outside
- Use a light therapy lamp in winter months
- 10,000 lux for 20-30 minutes in the morning
6. Social Connection: The Serotonin Multiplier
- Daily: Video call a friend/family member
- Set a specific time, like during your evening walk
- Weekly: In-person social activity
- Join a club related to your interests for regular, meaningful interactions
7. Mindful Living
- Use the "3-3-3 Rule" for quick grounding:
- Name 3 things you see, 3 things you hear, move 3 parts of your body
- Learn a new skill weekly:
- Challenging your brain stimulates neural pathways and can boost mood
8. Environment: Your Serotonin Sanctuary
- Create a "mood nook" in your home:
- Comfortable seating, plants, and a diffuser with lavender or bergamot
- Declutter regularly:
- A tidy space can lead to a calmer mind
9. Track and Adapt
- Use a mood tracking app like Daylio
- Look for patterns—does outdoor time consistently boost your mood?
- Monthly review:
- What worked well? What didn't? Adjust your plan accordingly
Remember: This is your personal serotonin strategy. Be patient and kind to yourself as you implement changes. Celebrate small victories, and don't hesitate to seek professional help if you need additional support.
Complete Workout and Stretch Routine Guide
Scientific 7-Minute Workout
| Exercise | Duration | Description |
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| 1. Jumping jacks | 30 sec | Full body, cardio |
| 2. Wall sit | 30 sec | Lower body strength |
| 3. Push-ups | 30 sec | Upper body strength |
| 4. Abdominal crunches | 30 sec | Core strength |
| 5. Step-up onto chair | 30 sec | Cardio, leg strength |
| 6. Squats | 30 sec | Lower body strength |
| 7. Triceps dips on chair | 30 sec | Upper body strength |
| 8. Plank | 30 sec | Core strength, stability |
| 9. High knees running | 30 sec | Cardio, leg strength |
| 10. Lunges | 30 sec | Lower body strength, balance |
| 11. Push-ups with rotation | 30 sec | Upper body strength, core |
| 12. Side plank | 30 sec | Core strength, obliques (15 sec each side) |
Workout Notes:
- Perform each exercise for 30 seconds
- Rest for 10 seconds between exercises
- Total workout time: 7 minutes
- Equipment needed: Chair, wall
- Aim to complete the circuit 2-3 times for optimal benefits
Remember to warm up before and cool down after the workout. Stay hydrated and listen to your body. Consult a physician before starting any new exercise regimen.
10-Minute Stretch and Yoga Routine
| Pose/Stretch | Duration | Description |
|---|---|---|
| 1. Mountain Pose | 30 sec | Stand tall, arms at sides, focus on breathing |
| 2. Forward Fold | 30 sec | Bend forward, touching toes or floor |
| 3. Cat-Cow Stretch | 60 sec | Alternate arching and rounding back on hands and knees |
| 4. Downward-Facing Dog | 30 sec | Inverted V-shape, stretches entire back of body |
| 5. Warrior I (Right) | 30 sec | Lunge with back foot at 45°, arms raised |
| 6. Warrior I (Left) | 30 sec | Repeat on left side |
| 7. Triangle Pose (Right) | 30 sec | Wide stance, bend to right, arm extended |
| 8. Triangle Pose (Left) | 30 sec | Repeat on left side |
| 9. Seated Forward Bend | 30 sec | Sit, legs extended, reach for toes |
| 10. Butterfly Stretch | 30 sec | Sit, soles of feet together, knees out |
| 11. Supine Twist (Right) | 30 sec | Lie down, twist lower body to right |
| 12. Supine Twist (Left) | 30 sec | Repeat on left side |
| 13. Child's Pose | 60 sec | Kneel, sit back on heels, stretch arms forward |
Stretch Routine Notes:
- Hold each pose for the specified duration
- Transition smoothly between poses
- Total routine time: Approximately 10 minutes
- Equipment needed: Yoga mat (optional)
- Focus on breathing deeply and steadily throughout
Remember to move gently and never force a stretch. If you feel pain, ease off the stretch. This routine can be done daily, either as a standalone practice or after other workouts.